G'day Dave,
I love your show and I am still listening a year on. You are my favourite podcast by far – please keep it coming.
It has been a year since I made this post and I thought it is a good time to revisit it.
1. I can't believe how fast time goes by.
2. I regret being impatient and not following good advice.
If you remember, I had established a routine where I would allow myself to have unlimited calories during the day provided I burned more than I consumed at the end of the day.
For a while, my routine was working really well – it was time consuming but I felt in control, I was losing weight, and my fitness was improving. However – every time I became stressed or disorganised, I ate more, my calories increased, I exercised less and lost the gains I had made with my routine.
I wish I had taken your advice this time last year. The flaw in my program is now apparent to me:- 5 weeks ago I moved down from Sydney to Melbourne for a new job. It is very stressful moving homes and leaving my community behind – as you would know.
When I was a kid, like a lot of others with weight problems, I felt ostracised and had a lot of social problems – again, common to kids with weight problems – so I thought I would deal with my fears head on – and take a job talking to large gatherings of people.
My existing habits have played out poorly – I have been too disorganised to exercise or eat well, I have ate to deal with my stress, and I have been drinking to excess. Although I have now regained my self control – I have put on 25kg in 5 weeks (yep – 5kg a week) – and destroyed several years of hard work.
I'm disappointed with myself, but it is a good chance to reflect. Lesson 1 is the need to go slow, be conservative: diet well and exercise regularly – and don't use food as a substitute.
If I had taken the advice above a year ago, I might not have lost the weight – but I doubt my psychology would have placed me in a position where I would baloon out as I have.
This time last year I was 92kg. In a few months I have gone to 120kg. This is Not cool Dave. I'm also now worried about making a bad impression with my new boss.
Lesson 2: stress is a killer of self control.
Lesson 3: When self control goes, we rely on habit, if I had established healthy habits I would have a better time of it.
As a final point – even being bigger than average this time last year, and having low self esteem about it, it is nowhere near as bad as I feel now: an exercising fat Dave was a lot better than a lazy fat Dave.
I would love if you did a show on how to manage stress and keep on target.
Dave
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