I just spent some time playing aroudn ediets.com It asked me a bucnh of questions including what I like to eat, my schedule, my goals, and my current exercise routine. Then it provided me with three different plans to choose from (or I could choose from others, as they have a ton of different plans). The site provides live support from dieticians. I found that very interesting. That might help in those times of crisis. They have a virutal trainer which looks pretty cool.
If you need more support there are over 80 support boards including Nutrition Support, New Members, and Get Motivated Board.
If you were to get a dietician, or a membership with weekly meetings, or a trainer, those would all add up. I was really surprised when I saw they were having a special dieal with 45% off. Their price is usually 9.995 a week, but now $4.49. You might want to check it out. Their website shows that if you don't reach your goals in 6 months they will give you another 6 months free.